by Anita Chlipala, LMFT | Oct 12, 2016 | Blog
Facing the aftermath of being dumped by surprise can be one of the worst feelings. You can’t seem to focus at work or school, you become obsessed with memories of your ex, you lose your appetite. And when my clients come to me in these kinds of situations, I find that...
by Anita Chlipala, LMFT | Sep 27, 2016 | Blog
In my last blog I wrote about common myths about cheating. Research indicates that infidelity is on the rise, with more relationships being affected by it. If good people are cheating, how can you tell if your partner (who I’m pretty sure you think is a good person)...
by Anita Chlipala, LMFT | Sep 6, 2016 | Blog
You finally met someone. You’ve had several email and text exchanges, and maybe had a date or two. You think this person is great, and you wonder if he could be “The One”? The only problem is, you barely even know the guy. Have you ever built a guy up in your head...
by Anita Chlipala, LMFT | Jul 1, 2015 | Blog
If there’s one thing that pains me to hear from my female clients, it’s that the guy they’re dating is scared of commitment. In the dating stage it may look like inconsistent contact, last minute get togethers or booty calls. In a relationship, it may mean waiting to...
by Anita Chlipala, LMFT | May 5, 2015 | Blog
Dear Anita, I was dating this guy for almost a year and he just dumped me. It took me by surprise and now I’m struggling. I think my friends are tired of hearing about him. It’s been three months since the breakup but I can’t get over it. Can you give me some tips to...
